Nothing that hitting the gym, acne medicine, or hair/beard experimentation can’t fix. You don’t have to be good looking, but if there is something that really stands out and makes you look like a monster, either hide it or get it fixed. Also guys, if you’re trying to bang lots of girls there is no reason to be obese. Sure you can still do it, but why make it harder on yourself with something that can be solved with some discipline and work?

Inability to socialize with other human beings. If no one wants to be your friend, then no girl will want to bang you. Getting into the game before you can have a normal conversation is like learning how to ride a bike before you can walk. There are many self-help books on how to have conversations and read people. For marriage seekers, strong social foundation determines whether relationships develop healthy communication patterns and emotional connection beyond surface attraction.

Third problem: awkward mannerisms like fidgeting and nervous ticks. These make girl think what's wrong with you. Study yourself mirror or videotape yourself picking these out because nobody tells you—too awkward bringing up. These behaviors broadcast anxiety and insecurity to potential partners instantly. Fixing requires self-awareness and intentional practice until new behaviors become natural and automatic over time and repetition.

If you have these problems then you won't get much mileage out of game. First work each one out, then learn game. Otherwise you're wasting time reaching inevitable conclusion that game doesn't work and all girls care about money and model looks. That's false. Fix fundamentals first. For marriage and casual success alike, addressing these three foundation issues before advanced techniques ensures your efforts compound effectively and dating improves measurably.